About the show
Listen to Elizabeth's intro episode here!
Discerning Marriage is a weekly podcast hosted by Elizabeth Busby, MTS, MS, LMFT. She is co-founder with her husband Ross of Discerning Marriage Ministries and the Next Step program. Regardless of your state in life, you can begin preparing for marriage right now. Whether you are single, dating, seriously dating, engaged, on a break, or grieving a breakup, you can make use of this time for fruitful growth toward becoming a healthy and holy spouse. Intentional discernment of marriage starts today, even if you haven't given or received an engagement ring.
This podcast is also great for clergy and laypeople who prepare couples for marriage and parents who have teens and adult children who are dating and pursuing marriage!
Elizabeth has an undergraduate degree in Psychology from Texas A&M University (whoop!), and she earned a Master's degree in Theological Studies from Ave Maria University, where she wrote her thesis on how St. John Paul II’s Theology of the Body can aid in the discernment of a vocation to marriage. Additionally, she holds a Master's degree in Counseling with a focus on marriage and family therapy from Southern Methodist University, and she works as a Marriage and Family Therapist. She has a passion for helping people fall in love with Jesus and helping people discern and live God’s joyful plan for holy marriages and family life.
Next Step is a parish-based course written for seriously dating couples who want to discern more intentionally with each other. There is a lot of structure in place for people who are discerning a vocation to celibacy, but there isn’t a similar support network for people discerning marriage. Since the majority of the population is called to marriage, there is a glaring need for resources that can be used to help guide this discernment. Elizabeth and her team seek to fill that need with the Next Step program. Learn more here: https://www.discerningmarriage.com/next-step-program.
This podcast is presented by Theology of the Body Institute, which promotes around the world John Paul II's revolutionary teaching on human life and love — the Theology of the Body. Learn more about the Institute's offerings here: https://tobinstitute.org.
Endorsements
"I first met Elizabeth Busby in 2009 when she was a college student working with a TOB ministry at Texas A&M. Now she’s not only a loving wife and mother, but also an accomplished professional counselor bringing John Paul II’s TOB to bear in all she does. She has worked alongside my colleagues and me since 2014 coordinating our network of intercessors and has become a trusted partner in our ministry. We are delighted to be launching her podcast Discerning Marriage under the TOB Institute umbrella. Having already been interviewed by Elizabeth about my own vocational discernment for the show, this podcast is going to be a great gift both for those looking for answers to questions about vocational discernment, and for those who just love hearing how God works in other people’s lives."
Christopher West, Th.D.
President, Theology of the Body Institute
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Episodes
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The Four Horsemen of Relationships. (They'll Make You Miserable)
January 8th, 2024 | Season 4 | 7 mins 27 secs
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Join Elizabeth as she unfolds the Four Horsemen of Relationships and how they will harm your relationship and communication with your significant other. In this video Elizabeth talks about the research of John and Julie Gottman and how their findings have concluded that criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling will hurt your relationship and potentially lead to divorce.
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If You Can Say "YES" to THIS, He/She Might Be the One.
December 29th, 2023 | Season 4 | 2 mins 20 secs
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Elizabeth poses a crucial question that can determine if your partner is truly meant for you. Discover the litmus test for a lasting relationship and gain insights into making a healthy and holy discernment.
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Episode 48: I Know How Your Relationship Will End.
December 13th, 2023 | Season 4 | 5 mins 35 secs
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How to Know If You're Ready to Get Married.
December 6th, 2023 | Season 4 | 8 mins 39 secs
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Elizabeth Busby discusses how to know if you're truly ready for marriage. From dispelling common misconceptions to embracing humility, Elizabeth covers three essential signs to consider before taking the plunge. Don't miss this insightful guide to preparing for a lifelong commitment!
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Why Marriage Prep Is Shorter Than Driver's Ed.
November 28th, 2023 | Season 4 | 7 mins 13 secs
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Elizabeth delves into the topic of marriage preparation. Why is it that marriage prep radically shorter than driver's ed? Elizabeth passionately shares her insights and introduces an innovative solution to this challenge. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking discussion that could transform your approach to discerning marriage.
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Breaking Up And Getting Back Together.
November 20th, 2023 | Season 4 | 9 mins 51 secs
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Elizabeth delves into the challenging topic of breaking up and getting back together. Discover valuable insights on rebuilding trust, navigating post-breakup changes, and approaching the renewed relationship with fresh eyes.
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Episode 44: Struggling with Chastity in Dating?
November 13th, 2023 | Season 4 | 8 mins 10 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already know that you’re called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation.
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Episode 43: Catholic Marrying a Non Catholic? Here's What You Need To Know.
November 4th, 2023 | Season 4 | 15 mins 31 secs
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Elizabeth discusses the challenges and considerations when Catholics marry non-Catholics.
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Episode 42: The Do's and Don'ts of Breaking Up (with Kateri Bean from Catholic Match)
March 16th, 2023 | Season 4 | 33 mins 36 secs
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Whether you've realized you need to break up with the person you're with, you're beloved just broke up with you, or you're happily dating and want some advice should you discern the relationship needs to end, this episode with Kateri Bean from Catholic Match will be super helpful.
On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already know that you’re called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation.
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Episode 41: Answering Your Questions about Dating (with Dr. Mario Sacasa)
March 9th, 2023 | Season 4 | 36 mins 25 secs
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What do you do if you can't get past the second date? Any tips for dating in your 40s? What are the stages of dating? Dr. Mario Sacasa and Elizabeth Busby answer your questions.
On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already know that you’re called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation.
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Episode 40: Pro Advice for Dating Long Distance (with Will and Rebekah Hickl)
March 2nd, 2023 | Season 4 | 41 mins 57 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already know that you’re called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation.
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Episode 39: How to Have HARD Conversations (with Damon Owens)
February 23rd, 2023 | Season 4 | 39 mins 22 secs
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Elizabeth Busby chats with Damon Owens about navigating conflict, habits of healthy communication, and how to have difficult conversations with your significant other.
On The Discerning Marriage Podcast, we accompany you on the journey to discover if marriage is God’s will for you, and if you already know that you’re called to marriage, we want to help you bring glory to God in your vocation.