Elizabeth Busby, MTS, MS, LMFT
Host of Discerning Marriage
Get to know Elizabeth by listening to her intro episode here!
Elizabeth Busby, MTS, MS, LMFT, is co-founder with her husband Ross of Discerning Marriage Ministries and the Next Step program.
Elizabeth has an undergraduate degree in Psychology from Texas A&M University (whoop!), and she earned a Master's degree in Theological Studies from Ave Maria University, where she wrote her thesis on how St. John Paul II’s Theology of the Body can aid in the discernment of a vocation to marriage. Additionally, she holds a Master's degree in Counseling with a focus on marriage and family therapy from Southern Methodist University, and she works as a Marriage and Family Therapist. She has a passion for helping people fall in love with Jesus and helping people discern and live God’s joyful plan for holy marriages and family life.
Next Step is a parish-based course written for seriously dating couples who want to discern more intentionally with each other. There is a lot of structure in place for people who are discerning a vocation to celibacy, but there isn’t a similar support network for people discerning marriage. Since the majority of the population is called to marriage, there is a glaring need for resources that can be used to help guide this discernment. Elizabeth and her team seek to fill that need with the Next Step program. Learn more here: https://www.discerningmarriage.com/next-step-program.
Elizabeth loves living the liturgical year with her family, the fact that the leaves change color in autumn, watching the Aggies BTHO everybody (ha!), and traveling.
Elizabeth Busby, MTS, MS, LMFT has hosted 81 Episodes.
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How Date When You've Never Dated as a Catholic.
November 22nd, 2024 | Season 4 | 7 mins 2 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Are you a single Catholic who’s never been in a relationship and feeling unsure about dating? You’re not alone! In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby dives into why not having dating experience isn’t a disadvantage. She challenges the idea that dating more prepares you better for marriage and shares the beautiful advantages of approaching relationships with a fresh heart.
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Episode 85: Will God Reveal Your Future Spouse to You?
November 15th, 2024 | Season 4 | 7 mins 47 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Elizabeth addresses a thought-provoking question from Instagram: Does God reveal to us who our future spouse is? Elizabeth dives into examples from Scripture and the lives of saints, discussing how rare it is for God to give direct instructions about a future spouse. Instead, she emphasizes the importance of free will, discernment, and trust in God’s guidance as you navigate dating and marriage. This insightful video encourages you to approach marriage discernment with an open heart, prayer, and personal responsibility. Whether you’re single, dating, or discerning marriage, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement.
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Masculine Modesty: How Can Men Dress More Modestly?
August 28th, 2024 | Season 4 | 12 mins 35 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Discover how men can embrace modesty in their daily lives while upholding dignity and respect for themselves and others. In this insightful video, Elizabeth explores the often-overlooked topic of masculine modesty and provides practical advice for dressing in a way that upholds the dignity of both men and women. Learn how to make thoughtful choices that reflect your inner values and support the well-being of those around you.
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Is Fear of Commitment a Red Flag 🚩?
August 21st, 2024 | Season 4 | 12 mins 42 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Elizabeth dives into the topic of commitment—specifically, when fear of commitment is a red flag and when it's a normal and healthy part of relationship discernment. Elizabeth shares insights for those dating, engaged, or contemplating marriage, helping you understand whether your hesitation is a sign to pause or just part of the natural process. Tune in to gain clarity on navigating your relationship journey.
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Now That the Olympics Ended, What Should Catholics Do?
August 12th, 2024 | Season 4 | 10 mins 33 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Elizabeth reflects on the passion and excitement surrounding the Paris 2024 Olympics and explores how our love for Olympic excellence mirrors our innate desire for eternal victory in Heaven. Whether you watched the Olympics or boycotted them, there's a spark within us all that yearns for greatness. Elizabeth dives deep into why this fire exists and how we can channel it towards achieving spiritual excellence in our daily lives.
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How to Stir Your Longing for Motherhood
July 31st, 2024 | Season 4 | 10 mins 47 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Elizabeth discusses the challenges many women face in embracing their femininity and the desire for motherhood in today's post-feminist movement era. She offers insightful advice on how to rekindle a longing for motherhood by understanding the intrinsic value of femininity, the importance of surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals, and the significant role of a woman’s menstrual cycle in shaping her perspective on motherhood. Join the conversation and share your thoughts in the comments below or connect with Elizabeth on Instagram @DiscerningMarriage.
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3 Things Catholic Women Find Attractive in a Man.
July 24th, 2024 | Season 4 | 4 mins 9 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
In this episode, Elizabeth Busby discusses three key qualities that Christian women find attractive in men. Whether you're single and looking for love or seeking to improve your relationship, these insights can help you become the man that a godly woman desires.
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Advice for Christians Struggling with Anxiety.
July 17th, 2024 | Season 4 | 15 mins 16 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Join Elizabeth as she provides practical advice on how to manage your anxiety as a Christian.
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Why You Should Become Friends Before Becoming Spouses | Friendship as the Foundation of Marriage
July 3rd, 2024 | Season 4 | 5 mins 53 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Elizabeth dives into the significance of being friends first in a marriage. She answers a question from Instagram about why friendship is crucial for a healthy and lasting marriage. Drawing from her experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist, she explores insights from John Gottman's research and discusses practical ways to build and maintain a strong friendship with your spouse.
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As Christians We Need to Talk About Nudity In Films...
June 29th, 2024 | Season 4 | 17 mins 9 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Elizabeth Busby dives into the challenging topic of nudity and gratuitous sexual content in popular films. Elizabeth shares her heartfelt thoughts on how these scenes impact viewers and how to respond from a faith-based perspective. She also discusses the biological and psychological effects of such content and offers guidance on maintaining personal and relational integrity. If you have ever struggled with how to navigate explicit content in movies, this video is for you.
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Should Women Wear Bikinis?
June 19th, 2024 | Season 4 | 12 mins 45 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Elizabeth delves into the complex topic of modesty, bikinis, and the responsibility of both men and women in upholding dignity. Should women to cover up, or should men be solely responsible for controlling their lustful thoughts?
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Why You Should Get Out of Debt as a Christian
June 12th, 2024 | Season 4 | 7 mins 10 secs
catholic, catholic dating, catholic formation, catholic podcast, catholic women, dating advice, discerning marriage, discernment, family, marriage, marriage and family, vocation, vocational discernment
Join Elizabeth as she dives deep into the crucial topic of debt and financial freedom from a Christian perspective. Discover why getting out of debt is essential not just for married couples, but for everyone striving for authentic Christian living. Elizabeth shares practical advice, historical insights, and spiritual wisdom to help you align your financial habits with your faith.