Episode Archive
89 episodes of Discerning Marriage since the first episode, which aired on August 9th, 2020.
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How to Discern Marriage, Priesthood or Religious Life?
March 21st, 2025 | Season 4 | 7 mins 38 secs
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Are you afraid that God might call you to something you don’t want? Fear distorts discernment, but the truth is liberating. In this episode, Elizabeth Busby breaks down how to discern marriage, priesthood, or religious life with clarity and confidence. Learn why fear of celibacy might be holding you back, why desire plays a key role in God’s plan, and how to trust Him fully in your vocation. If you're discerning marriage, check out Next Step, our in-depth course designed to guide you through this process. Watch now and break free from fear!
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What Is "Allowed" in a Christian Marriage?
March 14th, 2025 | Season 4 | 10 mins 34 secs
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What physical intimacy is appropriate within marriage? In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby dives deep into the topic of healthy boundaries after marriage. With her expertise as a Master Theologian and licensed marriage and family therapist, she unpacks what truly upholds the dignity of both spouses in marital intimacy.
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When Your Partner Has a Porn Addiction...
February 28th, 2025 | Season 4 | 7 mins 3 secs
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Struggling with a partner’s pornography addiction? You’re not alone. In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby shares practical and compassionate guidance on how to navigate this challenging situation. Learn why seeking professional help is crucial, why you shouldn’t be your partner’s accountability partner, and why incorporating pornography into your relationship is never the answer.
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Can Couples Have "Romantic Talk" Before Marriage?
February 21st, 2025 | Season 4 | 4 mins 33 secs
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Are romantic conversations before marriage okay? What about discussing desires for each other? In this video, Elizabeth Busby answers a viewer's question about boundaries in pre-marital relationships. She explains the difference between healthy expressions of love and conversations that may lead to inappropriate arousal.
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3 Practical Boundaries for Waiting Until Marriage
January 8th, 2025 | Season 4 | 14 mins 4 secs
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In this video, Elizabeth Busby dives into clear steps, real-life examples, and essential strategies to build intentional habits in your dating life. Whether you’re starting fresh or getting back on track, learn how to craft an environment that supports your goals and aligns with your values. Discover practical and actionable boundaries to help you honor your decision to wait until marriage.
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Don’t Date Them If They Don’t Have These Green Flags.
January 3rd, 2025 | Season 4 | 8 mins 16 secs
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In today’s episode, we’re flipping the script and focusing on the positives of dating—specifically, the green flags you should look for in a potential partner.
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Will Your Wedding Night Be Awkward If You Wait Until Marriage?
December 27th, 2024 | Season 4 | 12 mins 15 secs
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In this heartfelt and honest video, Elizabeth Busby dives into the myths, fears, and truths surrounding intimacy for couples who choose to wait until their wedding night.
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The Most Overlooked Red Flags In Dating
December 21st, 2024 | Season 4 | 5 mins 38 secs
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In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby dives into some of the most overlooked red flags in dating that can impact your relationships and your future. While red flags like communication issues or dishonesty are often discussed, these subtle but significant factors might be flying under your radar.
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How Date When You've Never Dated as a Catholic.
November 22nd, 2024 | Season 4 | 7 mins 2 secs
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Are you a single Catholic who’s never been in a relationship and feeling unsure about dating? You’re not alone! In this episode of Discerning Marriage, Elizabeth Busby dives into why not having dating experience isn’t a disadvantage. She challenges the idea that dating more prepares you better for marriage and shares the beautiful advantages of approaching relationships with a fresh heart.
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Episode 85: Will God Reveal Your Future Spouse to You?
November 15th, 2024 | Season 4 | 7 mins 47 secs
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Elizabeth addresses a thought-provoking question from Instagram: Does God reveal to us who our future spouse is? Elizabeth dives into examples from Scripture and the lives of saints, discussing how rare it is for God to give direct instructions about a future spouse. Instead, she emphasizes the importance of free will, discernment, and trust in God’s guidance as you navigate dating and marriage. This insightful video encourages you to approach marriage discernment with an open heart, prayer, and personal responsibility. Whether you’re single, dating, or discerning marriage, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement.
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Masculine Modesty: How Can Men Dress More Modestly?
August 28th, 2024 | Season 4 | 12 mins 35 secs
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Discover how men can embrace modesty in their daily lives while upholding dignity and respect for themselves and others. In this insightful video, Elizabeth explores the often-overlooked topic of masculine modesty and provides practical advice for dressing in a way that upholds the dignity of both men and women. Learn how to make thoughtful choices that reflect your inner values and support the well-being of those around you.
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Is Fear of Commitment a Red Flag 🚩?
August 21st, 2024 | Season 4 | 12 mins 42 secs
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Elizabeth dives into the topic of commitment—specifically, when fear of commitment is a red flag and when it's a normal and healthy part of relationship discernment. Elizabeth shares insights for those dating, engaged, or contemplating marriage, helping you understand whether your hesitation is a sign to pause or just part of the natural process. Tune in to gain clarity on navigating your relationship journey.